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One really excellent side-effect of transition is increased self-confidence. Last night I saw this in action. Alexander hosted a party for GLU and invited Travis and me to come. Travis couldn't go, because it would mean too much time away from work and other commitments, but I went. I had a wonderful time. I talked to people. I "mingled" as it were. I didn't get all thick-tongued and bashful like I used to. I laughed and joked and was totally there as an active participant. It felt good!

Another guest is a friend of Alexander's from way back in junior high. She and Travis were friends too, up until our break with Alexander in 2001, so she knew us, but under our old names. She asked us to do an introduction because there were faces there she didn't know, and when I introduced myself as Carla she seemed a bit surprised. I explained where she knew me from and that Travis and I are both trans and she just took it in stride. She called me Carla the rest of the night, and referred to Travis as Travis, too. It was wonderful to be accepted so quickly and easily.

Plus I made pumpkin tortilla soup and a pumpkin pie for the party and they were both very popular. :)

So all-in-all, an excellent night for me.
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So today I got my very first manicure/pedicure. Cost me $35 at O.Nail. I felt a little self-conscious sitting in the chair, but our friend Alexander was with me in guy mode, so maybe they just assumed we were a couple of drag queens or something. Who knows? Who cares? I didn't get the name of the woman who did my nails because she was very quiet and reserved, which suits me. I'm not always comfortable with talking to strangers. I think the bigger problem was that she didn't actually speak English all that well. Whatever. She did a great job!

Even if I all I ever got was a clear coat on my nails afterward, I think I'd do this again and again if we had the cash for it. My mother-in-law used to go someplace near our office to get her nails done, and I TOTALLY understand why now. It's so relaxing letting someone else do your nails. She was very thorough, and my nails were kind of nasty to begin with, so I think this might be the best shape they've ever been in. God, I feel so girly! I love it! My toes are this nice dark sort of eggplant colour, and my fingers are a really subtle pearlescent pink. They're a shinier than my natural nails, but they're about the same colour, so if the aforementioned mother-in-law should stop by unannounced I'd only have to cover up my tootsies. :)

We took pictures, so as soon as Travis extracts them from the camera I'll link to them, because I'm sure you're just DYING to see them.

The occasion was a 4th of July BBQ that some of Alexander's friends were having. I bet the party is still going on right now. There were lots of transwomen there, plus a few other apparently normal folks. Whatever "normal" means, eh? ;) It was the first time I've ever been out in public (even though this was a private space) where I could be myself. I feel like a little kid compared to these people though. I'm so tiny and undeveloped as a person, but these women were all well-developed people. Well, I'm growing now, at last.
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So I’m going to turn 42 this year. Nothing special happens, I just get to mark another year off the calendar of my life. I’d like to invite anyone reading this to join us here on the fifth of April for a little cookout. It won’t be anything fancy, just folks and food. Most likely it’ll just be dogs & burgers on the grill. I’ll make some potato salad. It’ll be nice.

I know nobody reading this actually lives in SoCal (except Grace, naturally) so I’ll understand if you can’t come. But there are a few of you on the left coast. I just want to put the invitation out there. Just let me know if you can make it.

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